The Break-up phase is very difficult on its own. Only people who have faced the situation, know what it takes to go through it. The pain that one gets through, is unbearable. But believe it or not, there are several other ways to move on after a break up with someone whom you loved the most. It might feel like someone has ripped off your heart, out of your chest, every single day. The breakup phase is sometimes worse for people and you can put off with it as long as you can.
Once you are over the breakup phase, you will feel great and will transform into a better person than you were in your toxic relationship. However, healing takes time, and it depends on how well an individual is able to handle the phase. Moreover, in some ways, you can cope up with the situation better.
Discover empowering ways to move on
This fact hits hard on the face, just like someone has splashed cold water. Isn’t it? Some people get into a relationship at a very young age when they are naïve. They don’t even know what it takes to deal with certain situations, but then they land up committing to a person. Sometimes, the person is a random someone whom they met online. They think that with love anything can be fixed. But instead of getting solved, the problems get worse. Only love cannot make a relationship last.
#1 Think again about what is best for you
Do you really want to sleep at night crying to yourself every single day? This is not what people expect from being in a relationship. Absolutely not! If you are in a relationship which is this miserable, it is time that you should end things, more maturely. You will have to move on. When you realize that the person is not right for you, you should not continue in it. The day will come when you understand that love out there is waiting for you. That one will be stronger than what you feel now. Even if it takes to break your own heart, you will have to take care of yourself for your good.
#2 Set some post-breakup time for yourself
We understand that thinking about anything optimistic is very difficult after a breakup. It seems that everything has ended, and you are left with no purpose in life. You will have to think about ways that will help you heal the right way after a breakup. You can consider rearranging your schedule in such a way so that you will have enough time for yourself. Maybe, during this time lock yourself up in a room and play some good music that will make you feel better. Plan a vacation for yourself, spend quality time with your friends or maybe just take a few days off from work. Do anything that will make you feel better. Just some time aside to handle the wave of emotions that you instantly get right after a break-up.
#3 Stay away as much as possible
You may want to check on your partner and have an intense curiosity to do so. You are not a CID guy, right? And so, stick to the rule that you will stay away from that toxic person as much as possible. Avoid checking up on your partner on any social media platform. Just stay away and give yourself some time to get over him.
Rebounds are good, but not after you have been through so much. Skip rebounds for a few days, because you are not going to end well in this way. Being single is Okay, being alone is Okay, being a bit selfish is Okay, but what is not Okay is Disrespect.
That’s it for today guys. Enjoy some Random Video Chatting with strangers and cheer up your mind. Stay happy and healthy and always keep smilling.